One black guy I know, he doesn't date black women because they'd call him on his shit. When he's getting fetishized by other women, he has more leeway to act 16, whereas, a black woman would call his 30 year old ass out on his bullshit.

Parallel, I hear a lot of asian women say they won't date asian men, I guess supposedly because we're all addicted to the same sexist bullshit of the motherland. (Nevermind, you know, that we're just as many generations removed as the women...). I don't know, I mostly hear this from women who've either a) never dated an asian guy (hmm), or only dated one or two and had bad experiences (you know, because one proves the whole lot of us is no good).

Which I'm sure is probably the same for black folks dating each other as well.