Somehow I doubt the stereotypes of physical violence which they attribute to us are triggered in the same way when talking about the psychological violence they so clearly rationalize to themselves.

And such a white person who can swing it both ways wouldn't hear the message anyway, right?

So are you worried that somehow I'm "turning away" some portion of theoretical white people who would make that connection, and that, I should change my tone lest I offend them?

Seriously, do you have anything beyond concern trolling here?