I'm saying that trying to get white people to sympathise with the experiences of poc, which is what you seem to be trying, by invoking a threat that doesn't exist (i.e. abuse, emotional and psychological violence) won't necessarily work. And I've seen white people dismiss your post for exactly that reason. Stereotypes don't affect them the way they affect poc.

I said the content of the post is problematic, not the tone.

Do you have any response to my arguments that don't attribute non-existent passive-aggressive behaviour to me?